Moving On

In life there is one thing that we have to learn how to do, and that is when to move on from something. That could be from anything, a relationship, a job or even a friendship. The hardest part about that is knowing when to do it.  There are time sin which you think you should leave and move on, but something holds you back, and you end being in a situation that you should not be.

I believe that people and things comes into you life for a purpose, and you can find out what that purpose is right away, or towards the end of it. The only thing is you don’t know what or how to learn from that situation and move on. A person would only move on from something until there is no other choice. Some people would hold on to everything they can, and try so hard to stay when deep down they know that they should leave.

Things comes into you life for a reason and a season, but sometimes they tend to crossover into another season, and you do not know how or when it will end. There are always sign that be right in our faces, but we never notices them until we barely can see them, and it almost too late. The most important thing is that you see them, and learn to deal with the situation head on before you can not.

I must say that I have been in those situations time and time again, a I never know when to leave because I am a people pleaser. I don;t like to let anybody down, and I go up and out of my way to make sure that everything is okay no matter the situation. That is one thing that I need to work on, I need to learn to make myself a priority, and not anyone else. That is easy to say, but it is so hard to do. Deep down in my gut I feel like I am letting them down, but when I comes to them I am just tack on a board.

You have to learn to do what’s best for you, and sometimes doing what’s best for you meaning hurting someone that you might not tend to hurt. You have to hurt in order to heal, and it takes time seasons are meant to change, and not everybody is mean to go into a new season with you. They are meant to stay in that season and they are always searching for that season.

With all that I am saying is learn to leave life on your terms, and when something end let it. That does not meant that is the end for you. There is so much more that will come out of that situation, sure it may be hard for a minute, but think about it like this. I been here before and I did alright. This time you may be down little longer, but that only mean that that lesson that season taught needs a little longer to grow.